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Ive posted on this forum before. My WW was the nurse that was thinking about travel nursing. Long story short, I caught her cheating with a guy she knew from facebook. It consisted of yahoo messenger texts, phone calls, and video calls. It started fairly quickly to sexting. The messages I saw were highly sexual....vulgar...the language and the context was as if a teenagers were talking to each other. When I found out, it had been going o for 2 months. I confronted her, she explained that she was unhappy, etc.
I decided to leave, packed up my stuff out of our house and left. We texted each other but she didnt have any remorse. After 3 days of this...I buy used rental cars exposed to some friends and family. She was furious....
After 2 weeks of me gone, I snooped and saw that she had signed up for 3 dating sites. She was getting all sorts of attentionfrom buy used rental cars these new guys while at the same time still in connection with the guy from facebook.
Then about 5 weeks after me leaving, I get an email from her asking me to move back home.....but to live as roommates. The reasoning being she wanted to split the mortgage until she left for her travel nurse job.
But today while in her preop room I think she saw me watching her access her phone. I went to the cafe to get something to eat. She knew I'd have to hold on to her belongings while she is in surgery.
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A little blunt but it's the truth. You should have never agreed to go back and help her out financially, that will not make her love you more. That will actually make her see you as a weaker man with no backbone.
You are right...she does not want you seeing her emails. All that you have posted points to the fact that she did ask you to be a roommate and nothing more. She is using you to pay for the mortgage and that is it.
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You do realize there are women out there that are not only physicaly health but emotionally heath and will give you the good things you diserve, instead of spending the day in a hospital waiting room.
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Originally Posted by jeff_r Ive posted on this forum before. My WW was the nurse that was thinking about travel buy used rental cars nursing. Long story short, I caught her cheating with a guy she knew from facebook. It consisted of yahoo messenger texts, buy used rental cars phone calls, buy used rental cars and video calls. It started fairly quickly to sexting. The messages I saw were highly sexual....vulgar...the language and the context was as if a teenagers were talking to each other. When I found out, it had been going o for 2 months. I confronted buy used rental cars her, she explained that she was unhappy, etc.
I decided to leave, packed up my stuff out of our house and left. We texted each other but she didnt have any remorse. After 3 days of this...I exposed to some friends and family. She was furious....
After 2 weeks of me gone, I snooped and saw that she had signed up for 3 dating sites. She was getting all sorts of attentionfrom these new guys while at the same time still in connection with the guy from facebook.
Then about 5 weeks after me leaving, I get an email from her asking me to move back home.....but to live as roommates. So you are okay with just being roomates with your WIFE seriously!!!!!!!!! The reasoning being she wanted to split the mortgage until she left for her travel nurse job. You know you did the wrong thing here because buy used rental cars you are trying to justify your actions buy used rental cars with a ridiculous excuse.
But today while in her preop room I think she saw me watching her access her phone. I went to the cafe to get something buy used rental cars to eat. She knew I'd have to hold on to her belongings while she is in surgery.
Maybe I know my answer....she doesn't want me reading her emails. Duh who would want their roommate reading their emails. Posted via Mobile Device Listen I am not going to beat around the bush or be nice. You are ignoring the problems and are letting your emotions and desperation cloud your judgement. I hope you aren't offended by what I have said but sometimes people need a wake up call and I would definitely say it is time for a wake up call.
She is your WIFE not your roommate. She is using you and you are acting like a whipped puppy. You were in a prime position to wreck her multiple affairs and take away her CAKE. Instead you move back in and help her pay for CHEATING on you.
STOP this and wake up. You need to pack up and leave again. You don't give her a dime unless she has to have it to survive. IF the house is in your name you leave now pack her things for her. When she gets home send her out the door. Your house your rules If she knows her stuff she will call the cops but canceling buy used rental cars her phone and internet would be a start for me. If she is going to cheat let it be on her dime not yours.
It is time to Man UP and tear this woman to pieces. This woman is probably having a PA right now. Look up No More Mr. Nice Guy , the 180 , and start standing up for yourself. buy used rental cars Stop letting her manipulate you.
Move back out and cut her off. Stop answering the phone, stop replying to texts, and start the D process so she knows that you aren't going to be her sad, depressed BH, she can lure into doing whatever she wants. Good luck
No she wasn't pregnant. We went to a fertility clinic for IVF back in January. We were told that her ovaries didn't respond to the medication. So our only other options were to adopt or use a donor egg.
I did snoop right after I moved back home. I saw a message she sent to the guy from facebook. buy used rental cars She tells him that she is trying to work it oout with me. She forwards this message to another email account. She also tells him that she will keep in touch with him periodically to see how he is doing. She sent this right after I movec back.
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Originally Posted by Hicks And you want to stay married to woman that pursues other men why? Because he loves her and was shocked to find out what type of a person his wife had become? Or always was, but hid it well?
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